{"id":26517,"date":"2019-04-19T09:44:56","date_gmt":"2019-04-19T06:44:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/?p=26517"},"modified":"2019-04-19T09:44:56","modified_gmt":"2019-04-19T06:44:56","slug":"iyi-gun-dostu-cem-ozel","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/2019\/04\/19\/iyi-gun-dostu-cem-ozel","title":{"rendered":"\u0130yi G\u00fcn Dostu | Cem \u00d6ZEL"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[avatar user=&#8221;cemozel&#8221; \/]<a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/author\/cemozel\"><br \/>\nCem \u00d6ZEL<\/a><br \/>\n<strong>Kullan\u0131c\u0131 Hizmetleri Y\u00f6neticisi\/Sabanc\u0131 \u00dcniversitesi Bilgi Merkezi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/neden-katalog-tarama.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-26506\" src=\"http:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/iyi-gun-dostu.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"390\" height=\"180\" \/><\/a>Herkesin dilindedir &#8220;k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostu&#8221;. \u0130nsan ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131k\u00e7a (Ya\u015f almak da ne g\u00fczel bir tabirdir. Sevgili P\u0131nar Aylin, ya\u015flanma yerine kullan\u0131r Peri Masal\u0131 kitab\u0131nda) k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostundan ziyade iyi g\u00fcn dostu arar. \u0130nsan\u0131n iyi g\u00fcn\u00fcnde dostlar\u0131n\u0131, sevdiklerini yan\u0131nda g\u00f6rememesi, baz\u0131 dinlerde uygulanan &#8220;d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnle\u015ftirme&#8221;ye kadar varabilir.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Hi\u00e7 farkettiniz mi, k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fczde \u00e7evrenizde bir s\u00fcr\u00fc insan olur. Kimileri ger\u00e7ekten k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostudur; ama baz\u0131lar\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc halinizi g\u00f6rmeye gelmi\u015f gibidirler. S\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemek, ak\u0131l vermek, \u015funu \u015funu uygula demek \u00e7ocuk oyunca\u011f\u0131d\u0131r onlar i\u00e7in. E\u011flencelidir de. \u0130\u00e7ten i\u00e7e keyif alan da olur bu k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostlar\u0131 aras\u0131nda.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fczl\u00fc\u011fe \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda yava\u015f yava\u015f bu k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostlar\u0131 s\u0131r olup ortadan kaybolur. H\u00fcz\u00fcn payla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r da mutluluk payla\u015f\u0131lmaz olur. \u0130sterseniz bir deneyin. Mesela bir g\u00fcn mutlu olun ve i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011funuz, sizi mutlu eden \u015feylerden bahsedin ulu orta yerde. G\u00f6receksiniz ki yan\u0131n\u0131zda kimse kalmayacak.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011fer yaln\u0131z kalmak istiyorsan\u0131z mutlu olun. Bir d\u00f6nem siyasette de kullan\u0131lan; ama pek de kabul g\u00f6rmeyen bir tabir vard\u0131: De\u011ferli yaln\u0131zl\u0131k! Belki bu tabiri bizim bu durum i\u00e7in kullanabiliriz.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00f6z\u00fcn k\u0131sas\u0131 diyelim ve kli\u015feleri y\u0131k\u0131p kendimize iyi g\u00fcn dostlar\u0131 edinelim. Eskiden tersi olabilir; ama devir de\u011fi\u015fti art\u0131k. \u015eunu \u00e7ok rahat s\u00f6yleyebilirim ki, zaman\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n iyi g\u00fcn dostu ayn\u0131 zamanda k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostu da olabilir; ama k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostu, her zaman iyi g\u00fcn dostu olmayabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Bu durum \u00f6zel hayat\u0131m\u0131zda da i\u015f hayat\u0131m\u0131zda da vuku bulabilir. Bu nedenle bir ki\u015fiye bile faydas\u0131 olursa, bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131k yarat\u0131rsa kendimi bir nebze mutlu hissederim.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[avatar user=&#8221;cemozel&#8221; \/] Cem \u00d6ZEL Kullan\u0131c\u0131 Hizmetleri Y\u00f6neticisi\/Sabanc\u0131 \u00dcniversitesi Bilgi Merkezi Herkesin dilindedir &#8220;k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostu&#8221;. \u0130nsan ya\u015f\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131k\u00e7a (Ya\u015f almak da ne g\u00fczel bir tabirdir. Sevgili P\u0131nar Aylin, ya\u015flanma yerine kullan\u0131r Peri Masal\u0131 kitab\u0131nda) k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcn dostundan ziyade iyi g\u00fcn dostu arar. \u0130nsan\u0131n iyi g\u00fcn\u00fcnde dostlar\u0131n\u0131, sevdiklerini yan\u0131nda g\u00f6rememesi, baz\u0131 dinlerde uygulanan &#8220;d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcnle\u015ftirme&#8221;ye kadar [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":143,"featured_media":26518,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1478],"tags":[1460],"class_list":["post-26517","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cem-ozel","tag-kose-yazarlari"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26517"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/143"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=26517"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26517\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":26520,"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/26517\/revisions\/26520"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/26518"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=26517"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=26517"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.bbyhaber.com\/bby\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=26517"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}